My name is Alex, I'm 28 and father to a lovely wee boy Cole who is nearly 2 months. Unfortunately I am not with Cole's mum but I'm very much invovled and love spending time with him. I want to make every second with him count. So any tips ideas or just a friendly chat are much appreciated. Nothing like being a dad

Hi. I'm Eileen and mam to Isabella who is 22 months old. The best advice I got was just a wee reminder that even when your baby is crying the house down and you're stressed out and tired remember how quick time goes. I feels like yesterday that my baby was only 2 months old and now shes just so independent its unbelievable! Enjoy every moment - even the rotten ones because you won't get them back again. Also play lots of games - the dafter the better thats what dads are great at - and brush up on all the nursery songs even if like me you can't sing! As long as you're happy with your baby he will be happy with you!